70: You Fall For Potential, Not Proven Consistency: ChatGPT's Brutal Dating Advice
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You Fall For Potential, Not Proven Consistency: ChatGPT's Brutal Dating Advice
Ever wondered what ChatGPT really thinks about your love life?
In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I asked ChatGPT to be brutally honest with me about my romantic blind spots… and she did not hold back. Using a juicy prompt inspired by Gala Darling, I got an AI-powered reality check on what might still be holding me back from the fairytale romance I know I deserve – and whew, it was a mix of eye-opening, confronting, and actually kind of empowering.
From over-functioning to falling for potential, I reflect on each truth, share how they show up in my real dating life, and explore what I’m doing to shift those patterns. I also spill the beans on what I’m updating in my dating profile, why I’ve taken a mini break from the apps, and whether or not I’d ever date a man’s brother. Yep, we go there.
Tune in for all the goss on:
1. The 4 dating blind spots holding me back (and probably you too)
2. Why I still fall for potential, not consistency
3. How my independence can actually block emotional intimacy
4. What “letting a man earn your vulnerability” actually means
5. The “cool girl” trap and second-guessing my own standards
6. Romanticising mystery and mistaking it for real connection
7. Happy Hour: Hinge cringe, my dating life update and a summer mocktail
8. Why I’m rethinking my dating profile prompts (again)
9. Should you ever date your ex’s brother?
The ChatGPT prompt from Gala Darling’s email:
“Based on what I've told you about my dating life, tell me what my blind spots are in romance. If I want XYZ, what could I do differently to get that result? Be brutally honest!”
And I edited it to say:
“Based on what I've told you about my dating life (and what you've learned from The Date with Confidence Podcast transcripts), tell me what my blind spots are in romance. If I want the man that meets my standards and a fairytale romance, what could I do differently to get that result? Be brutally honest!”
Mentioned:
How to Use ChatGPT to NEVER Settle in a Relationship
Using ChatGPT to write my future story
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